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This could be a sign of an unhealthy relationship. Your partner should accept and respect you as you are, no matter how you look and what you wear. Learn more about red flags of abuse

This is very controlling behaviour and is a red flag for emotional abuse. Learn more about emotional abuse

This could be a sign of an unhealthy relationship. Your partner should not get annoyed or guilt-trip you if you don’t reply to their texts straight away. Learn more about red flags for abuse

Red flags for an abusive relationship are when your partner:

• messages you constantly
• gets annoyed when you don’t reply straight away
• asks where you are all the time
• demands to know who you are with

You can text Love Better to 234 for 24/7 support. Learn more about red flags here. 

If your partner looks through your phone, this is an invasion of privacy. In a healthy relationship your partner trusts you and doesn’t make you feel guilty or afraid. Learn about red flags here.

This is a red flag for abuse. If your partner always looks through your phone and knows all your passwords this is very controlling behaviour. Get Help

Sharing or threatening to share intimate images of another person without their consent is a crime. Learn more about this here.

Threatening to share intimate images of you is a crime. Learn more about this here.

Sharing intimate images of another person without their consent is a crime. Learn more about this here.

If you think they might be monitoring you, you should speak to someone you trust about it. Are they stalking or watching everything you do online? Learn more about staying safe online here.

This is a red flag for abuse. This is very controlling and dangerous behaviour. Text Love Better to 234 to get support 24/7 if you are worried. Get Help

Disagreements in a relationship are normal but if this starts to happen often it could be a sign that your relationship is unhealthy. Learn more about this here.

This is a red flag for abuse. If your partner makes you feel afraid or anxious this could be a sign of emotional abuse.

This is a red flag for abuse. Your partner should never hurt you, or threaten to hurt you. Text Love Better to 234 if you are worried. Get Help

This is a red flag for abuse. Your partner should never hurt you, or threaten to hurt you. Text Love Better to 234 for 24/7 support. Get Help

Consent is important and should never be assumed, especially when you’re in a relationship with someone. Learn more about this here.

Being guilted into doing things sexually is not consent. Your partner should respect your boundaries. Learn about consent in relationships.

This is a red flag for abuse. Your partner should never pressure or force you to do anything sexually you don’t consent to. hurt you, or threaten to hurt you. Learn more about this here.

This could be a sign of an unhealthy relationship. Your partner should respect your wishes. Learn more about this here.

This is a red flag for abuse. Your partner should not threaten to hurt themselves if you break up, this is very manipulative. Text Love Better to 234 for 24/7 support if you are worried. Get Help